PREMIUM We took sex off the table until we got married Would you wait if your love interest told you to keep off any kind of sexual intimacy in the relationship until after marriage?
Three secrets to keep your marriage thriving... Couples who realise that a marriage is a gift to each other put in the work to make it worth their while.
PREMIUM Kitoto: Can a Christian man cheat if his wife withholds sex? My wife has lost interest in sex. She has stopped showering before bed
I’m a graduate, married to an illiterate wife. I want out as she’s not at my level I'm a university graduate. She's not on my level. She has a lot of weaknesses. Ni mjinga excess
Men I lied. I actually want to get married. I think I have been sleeping alone for a major part of my adult life, but the days I woke up to someone’s daughter were my favourite
How Kenyan children are learning about sex The porn industry is growing fast and filling the gap in sexual education, especially here where sex is not talked about loudly.
PREMIUM My wife cheated, can I compel her to reveal the lover? You have no powers to cause such compulsion, and this may only be awarded by a court of law and only when the merits presented before it justifies.
Why it is important to grieve the end of your marriage You grieve the end of a marriage, however bad it was, because you are also dealing with yourself and questioning your life choices.
PREMIUM Kitoto: Why won’t his baby mama leave us alone? If your desire is to move your relationship forward, you will need to recommit the relationship to a culture of open disclosure.
A happy marriage is all that your children need The best way to ensure their success is actually by devoting less time to your children and more to your spouse.
PREMIUM Surge in use of dating apps As millennials and Gen Zs bear the brunt of negative characterisation due to their weird dating preferences, four young adults explain how they navigate this.
What kind of wife are you? While there are broken men out there, there are also women who are impossible to live with.
Kitoto: Is she pregnant or faking it? Some women have been known to place the pregnancy on a man for a particular reason known to them.
Mantalk: Why Kenyan men no longer need women Dating now is like applying for a passport in the government office: if it works, that’s because you don’t need it.
PREMIUM I like to pay for sex. Should I ask my girlfriend for permission? There is a likelihood and a danger that your self-discovery is purely lust and it could lead to you becoming a sex addict.
What kind of husband are you? No woman leaves a marriage without having put in blood, sweat, and rivers of tears.
PREMIUM Kitoto: I am unable to date due to childhood trauma There is a need for a recognition that your father’s abuse has no place in your future.
My wife is putting stuff in my food to tame me. Should I divorce her? Her pastor has poisoned her mind that I have many girlfriends, and even prescribed medicinal concoctions to put in my food.
It’s no betrayal unless you both had set limits Discuss your expectations, and establish limits you can agree on around intimacy, confidentiality and finances.
