How do I make my brother-in-law's wife stop treating me like an outsider?

She wants the family to see me as an outsider just as she does

What you need to know:

  • Do not allow your brother-in-law's wife to stop you from becoming a member of this family just because she has been around longer than you

Q. I am in my first  year of marriage and my husband and I are doing well. My problem is my brother-in-law's wife. She got married nine years ago but has not accepted the reality that I'm part of the family. She talks behind my back especially to my husband’s family and avoids every conversation with me. I have a good relationship with my parents-in-law. This makes her even more jealous. At times I feel so intimidated and I fear visiting my husband’s family. She always want to be seen as the best in the family. She wants the family to see me as an outsider just as she does. What do I do to solve this? I need these issues to work out.

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