Meet Robert Aule, the male midwife whose gentle hands are rewriting gender roles in Tiaty
Mr Robert Aule, a volunteer male midwife from Tiaty, Baringo County.
What you need to know:
- Robert Aule Nachukul, known affectionately as the "mid-husband," has helped deliver over 320 babies across Baringo.
- Drawing from training by Finnish missionaries and his own experience, he has successfully handled numerous complicated births.
- He has earned so much trust that many families have named their children after him.
- Though officially retired from government service, Aule continues his vital work at Ng'oron dispensary in Baringo County.
"It's about compassion, connection, and empowering families," says Robert Aule Nachukul, his weathered hands gesturing expressively as he speaks.
For more than three decades, this remarkable 62-year-old has served as what local women affectionately call their "mid-husband" – a male midwife whose gentle touch and unwavering dedication have helped bring over 320 new lives into the world.
In a region where accessing medical care often means traversing rugged terrain and overcoming deep-rooted cultural barriers, Aule's presence at the Ng'oron dispensary has become a beacon of hope for expectant mothers.
His journey into midwifery began not with formal medical training, but with a calling that emerged from his own story of resilience.
"I was an orphan, taken in by missionaries in 1962," Aule recalls, his voice soft but steady. "I was born with a disability and became a church boy. The missionaries took me to Kijabe Hospital for leg surgery." Through the generosity of a sponsor from England, he was able to study up to Form Two before his benefactor returned home. This early experience with medical care, combined with his basic education, would shape his future in ways he couldn't have imagined.
What started as a position as a subordinate staff member at the mission transformed into a lifelong vocation when Finnish missionaries from the culture recognised his potential. They trained him as part of their Trainer of Trainers program, equipping him with both theoretical knowledge and practical skills in nursing and first aid.
The transition from trainee to trusted healthcare provider wasn't always smooth. In 1991, amid a severe shortage of nurses, the government recruited Aule to help fill the gap. He found himself at the forefront of maternal healthcare in one of Kenya's most challenging regions, where his skills would be tested time and again.
"I chose midwifery because it's about being there for families, offering empathy and unconditional support," he explains, his eyes crinkling with warmth. "It's about being present during one of the most significant moments of their lives."
His impact is perhaps most profoundly felt in his work with women who have undergone female genital mutilation (FGM). Aule has successfully helped 32 women with high-risk births following FGM procedures, drawing on his experience and faith to guide them through complicated deliveries.
One such mother, who requested anonymity, shared her story: despite having undergone FGM and facing significant complications, she successfully delivered three children with Aule's assistance. Her trust in his skills never wavered.
Christine Cheyech from Ngoron recalls her own extraordinary experience: "Aule helped me deliver triplets ten years ago. I had no reservations because I had heard about his skills in helping mothers deliver."
Jane Cheporoiot from Takaywa village speaks of him with particular fondness. "He took care of me with my firstborn. I was so green, and he taught me how to wash and dress a baby," she says. "He is very good-hearted. We need more male midwives in our hospitals. Generally, men have a soft spot for expectant mothers – they are very gentle, calm and caring."
His impact extends beyond the delivery room. Throughout the region, countless children bear witness to his legacy through their names – boys called Robert and girls named Aule. "I meet with many of them at Nginyang and Ng'oron," he says, breaking into a warm smile. "We chat and laugh a lot."
Trauma
The path hasn't been without its challenges. Cultural sensitivities sometimes lead to hesitation about male presence during childbirth, and Aule has had to navigate these waters with careful respect.
"It's not uncommon for women to feel uncomfortable having a male present during certain aspects of care, particularly if they've experienced past trauma," he acknowledges.
"Some cultures also have customs that prevent women from receiving care from men, so sensitivity and adaptability are key."
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His wife has become an integral part of his work, stepping in when cultural norms require a female presence.
"Recently we helped a woman who had complications, and she delivered safely," he shares. "When I'm not there, my wife helps women to give birth."
Though he officially retired from government service in 2022, Aule's commitment to his community hasn't wavered, even as he faces challenges with receiving his extension pay.
"I just survive by the grace of God," he says, showing the same resilience that has characterised his entire career.
Bishop Jimmy Gor, Project Director of the Christian Impact Mission (CIM), recognises Aule as a transformative force in the community.
Gender barriers
"Breaking down gender barriers has been something that Aule has had to do on a regular basis within the health profession," Gor notes. The organisation recently celebrated Aule's contributions at a ceremony at Domo Victory Life International.
As the sun sets over the semi-arid landscape of Baringo, Aule continues his work, equipped with his delivery kit and unwavering determination.
"I love what I do," he reflects. "The smiles I share with families I care for are irreplaceable. This is a defining moment in their lives, and I'm just so incredibly proud to play this part in their important, unfolding life story. It is a huge privilege to be a midwife."
In a profession traditionally dominated by women, Robert Aule Nachukul stands as a testament to the power of breaking barriers and following one's calling. His story reminds us that compassion knows no gender, and that sometimes the most profound impact comes from those who dare to challenge convention in service of their community.