Just Brenda: He calls me a whiner

He says my problems are too small to been worry about. PHOTO | FILE

What you need to know:

  • You're sharing your life with a man who thinks your problems are smaller and much less important than his.
  • So now in your walk together when the problems become bigger (because life always gets harder) you'll just continue to pale in the shadow of his supposed significance?

Hi Brenda,

My man doesn't like it when I tell him my problems. He says I complain too much and I should be more positive. He says my problems are too small to been worry about. This makes me feel belittled because I always listen to his problems even when I think they are dumb.


Sis,
Leave him.
You're sharing your life with a man who thinks your problems are smaller and much less important than his. So now in your walk together when the problems become bigger (because life always gets harder) you'll just continue to pale in the shadow of his supposed significance? You are writing to me to answer your own question. A man who does not listen to your problems does not deserve your promises. You already feel belittled. Are you waiting to feel like nothing now? Leave. Him. Sis. Before he leaves you because a man who thinks so little of you will do just that. 

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