Embracing single parenting
When children are raised by a single father or mother, they grow up with social and psychological inhibitions that affect their worldviews, according to research.
Single parenthood, once frowned up, is now an increasingly accepted reality in modern society, including in Kenya. This shift is largely driven by social, economic and cultural factors, highlighting progress in individual autonomy and family structures.
More people are choosing single parenthood due to divorce, casual relationships, career pursuits and technological advancements in reproductive health, among others. While these changes reflect a society embracing new ways of living, single parents still face significant challenges.
Single parents, particularly single mothers, often encounter societal bias, with stereotypes about their ability to create stable homes. Single fathers, on the other hand, face doubts about their nurturing abilities. Single parents also experience financial strain and emotional exhaustion. Without the support of a co-parent, the responsibility of providing for and raising children can be overwhelming. Children in single-parent households may also experience emotional gaps or societal pressures.
Robust support systems
The rise in single-parent families highlights the urgent need for robust support systems. Governments and organisations must provide essential resources such as affordable childcare, financial assistance and mental health services. Schools can play a key role by promoting inclusivity and offering programmes that support children from diverse family backgrounds. Additionally, the equitable implementation of the new education funding model could help ease the financial burdens on single-parent households, ensuring that their children have equal access to quality education.
Ultimately, the increasing prevalence of single parent families highlights the need for a broader definition of family. Love, care and resilience, not traditional structures, should define the essence of family. By embracing this perspective, society can create an environment where all family units, regardless of their makeup, have the opportunity to thrive.
Ms Murugi is a corporate communications intern at JKUAT.
